Create your own visual style… let it be unique for yourself and yet identifiable for others.’– Orson Welles To this day, the most difficult struggle for me has been comparing myself to others. It is, hands down, the worst thing I do to myself as it is an unfair assessment to compare ourselves to others who started on the journey before us. We aren’t on the same level, yet we become envious and begin to doubt our own abilities. That, in turn, causes us to think negatively about ourselves! Am I right? I have been working on this for quite some time. Sometimes though, when we are struggling with difficult situations, these kinds of thoughts start sneaking into our minds and we begin to question our abilities, our strengths and our skills. It’s time to change your frame of mind! Start listing everything you’ve accomplished and what you have coming up to look forward to. It’s time to squash those negative thoughts immediately!